No, no voy a escuchar, admirar y aplaudir un violador

TW: Violencia sexual Ahí estamos. Pues, hace ya unos días que quería escribir sobre ese tema pero no sabia como expresarme claramente. Hace unos días/semanas, fui bombardeada con un enlace de un vídeo TED talk protagonizado por una victima y su violador, luchando junt@s en contra de la cultura de la violación. Seguro que habéis visto …

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Non, je ne vais pas écouter ni admirer ni applaudir un violeur

TW: Violence sexuelle Pardon: Fait de ne pas tenir rigueur d'une faute; rémission d'une offense. http://www.larousse.fr/dictionnaires/francais/pardon/58105 Et bien voilà, on y est. Cela faisait déjà plusieurs jours que j'avais envie et besoin d'écrire mais que je n'arrivais pas à formuler le tout comme je voulais . Il y a quelques jours donc, et même déjà …

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No, I won’t listen to, admire and applaud a rapist

TW: sexual violence Forgiveness: the act of forgiving or the willingness to forgive. Forgive: to stop blaming or feeling angry with someone for something that person has done or not punish them for something. http://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/forgiveness Well, here we are. It has been days since I wanted and needed to write about it but I couldn't …

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Don’t get raped or don’t rape? … A locked pants story

TW! So, as you have probably already seen in the media those last days, a German company has created an anti-rape pants. Wow! I do not put any link as you probably know what it is about and you can easily find it anyways. The pants come with coded lock and loud alarm in case …

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Our silence makes them stronger

Beside the assaults themselves, the most painful for me was the silence. I always wanted to speak up, to scream to get all the pain out. I just couldn't. The assaults by themselves were so traumatic that they let me in shock and voiceless. Really. I froze and disconnected like a lot of people do …

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Soy puta, eres puta, es puta, todas somos putas…ya lo sé. Gracias.

Todo empezó con una "broma". Pues, para decir las cosas claramente, un hombre hizó una "broma" sobre el hecho que las mujeres dicen no pero justo despues decir que no preguntan por cuanto ellos pagan y  depende de lo que pagan el no se convierte en si. Pues, en resumen: nosotras mujeres aceptamos todo si …

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I have a lot of respect for women, but I gonna spank you

Once again, I had to block a "suggested video" of Facebook. A video of the new trailer of the fifty shit of abuses. Once again, I have been told that what I experienced and made me suffer until now, what required me to be in therapy and gives me horrendous flashback and panic attacks was …

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TW : sexual violence/violencia sexual (Castellano abajo) I made this blog because I need to speak about what happened to me, how I dealt and deal now with this shit and how I feel. It helps me a lot to write about it. To put words on my feelings. To express myself. I have been …

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