Non, je ne vais pas écouter ni admirer ni applaudir un violeur

TW: Violence sexuelle Pardon: Fait de ne pas tenir rigueur d'une faute; rémission d'une offense. http://www.larousse.fr/dictionnaires/francais/pardon/58105 Et bien voilà, on y est. Cela faisait déjà plusieurs jours que j'avais envie et besoin d'écrire mais que je n'arrivais pas à formuler le tout comme je voulais . Il y a quelques jours donc, et même déjà …

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No, I won’t listen to, admire and applaud a rapist

TW: sexual violence Forgiveness: the act of forgiving or the willingness to forgive. Forgive: to stop blaming or feeling angry with someone for something that person has done or not punish them for something. http://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/forgiveness Well, here we are. It has been days since I wanted and needed to write about it but I couldn't …

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Don’t get raped or don’t rape? … A locked pants story

TW! So, as you have probably already seen in the media those last days, a German company has created an anti-rape pants. Wow! I do not put any link as you probably know what it is about and you can easily find it anyways. The pants come with coded lock and loud alarm in case …

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Our silence makes them stronger

Beside the assaults themselves, the most painful for me was the silence. I always wanted to speak up, to scream to get all the pain out. I just couldn't. The assaults by themselves were so traumatic that they let me in shock and voiceless. Really. I froze and disconnected like a lot of people do …

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I have a lot of respect for women, but I gonna spank you

Once again, I had to block a "suggested video" of Facebook. A video of the new trailer of the fifty shit of abuses. Once again, I have been told that what I experienced and made me suffer until now, what required me to be in therapy and gives me horrendous flashback and panic attacks was …

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Project photo/proyecto foto

TW : sexual violence/violencia sexual (Castellano abajo) I made this blog because I need to speak about what happened to me, how I dealt and deal now with this shit and how I feel. It helps me a lot to write about it. To put words on my feelings. To express myself. I have been …

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“Bonjour! Ca va?” from street harassment to rape

TW: sexual assault and rape. It was a very hot afternoon of June 2000. I wanted to go to the library but instead of going directly there I decided to go to buy a bottle of mineral water. It was 2:00pm. It was in the heart of the city and it was crowded. People were …

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