Non, je ne vais pas écouter ni admirer ni applaudir un violeur

TW: Violence sexuelle Pardon: Fait de ne pas tenir rigueur d'une faute; rémission d'une offense. http://www.larousse.fr/dictionnaires/francais/pardon/58105 Et bien voilà, on y est. Cela faisait déjà plusieurs jours que j'avais envie et besoin d'écrire mais que je n'arrivais pas à formuler le tout comme je voulais . Il y a quelques jours donc, et même déjà …

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No, I won’t listen to, admire and applaud a rapist

TW: sexual violence Forgiveness: the act of forgiving or the willingness to forgive. Forgive: to stop blaming or feeling angry with someone for something that person has done or not punish them for something. http://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/forgiveness Well, here we are. It has been days since I wanted and needed to write about it but I couldn't …

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Don’t get raped or don’t rape? … A locked pants story

TW! So, as you have probably already seen in the media those last days, a German company has created an anti-rape pants. Wow! I do not put any link as you probably know what it is about and you can easily find it anyways. The pants come with coded lock and loud alarm in case …

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Our silence makes them stronger

Beside the assaults themselves, the most painful for me was the silence. I always wanted to speak up, to scream to get all the pain out. I just couldn't. The assaults by themselves were so traumatic that they let me in shock and voiceless. Really. I froze and disconnected like a lot of people do …

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Why don’t victims report rape?

TW : Rape One of the most common question we hear  when we talk about sexual violence and rape is "Why didn't she report it immediately to the police?". Like if it was obvious. Well, if someone hit you with a baseball bat to take your wallet you will report it. If someone punch you to …

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